Respect
Queeruption is a DIY event -- so it is what we make it. We want all
people here to feel comfortable, so we all must work to make that
comfort for each other. We can start by listening to one another,
being openminded, knowing that we have come together to learn from
one another. We aim for an environment where differences are not only
tolerated but respected, celebrated, supported, and defended. Let's
have each other's backs here, people!
*Queers will not tolerate disrespect for queers at Queeruption.
You're expected to take responsibility for all your isms and phobias
(sexism, racism, ageism, ableism, fatphobia,
homo/bi/trans/intersex/heterophobia, kinksexphobia, asexphobia,
classphobia, and all the other hierarchical shit that's out there).
You can't leave your fears at the gate but you can limit the impact
they'll have on other people at Queeruption.
*All identities are self defined. Donīt presume you know someone's
gender, ethnicity, sexual preference, political position, favorite
position, or anything else to do with their identity; ask, listen,
and respect what you hear.
*Pay attention to boundaries. Different people have different
boundaries when it comes to personal space and physical contact. Most of us want different things at different times,
or different things
from different people. Please do not make assumptions about other
people's comfort or desires. And remember: No means no.
* Watch people's body language. If someone is continuously turning away from you, avoiding eye contact, crossing
their arms when you speak to them, looking awkward, bored, making excuses as to why they need to be away from you,
not egaging with you, not responding to your physical advances - this is often a good indicator that
they're saying back off! Respect it.
*Own your words and actions. We want to encourage the expression of
radically different opinions, choices, and tactics at Queeruption,
which means we must work hard not to silence each other. When we disagree, let's try to do it in a way
where we can hear each other. Communicate with care and respect and always consider the context in which
you are speaking.
*Be safe. Medical emergency, fire, theft, physical confrontation,
sexual assault, and emotional crisis are all variables of life, and
they exist here too. We have a basic (DIY) support structure for
dealing with crisis at Queeruption. Please take the time to read the
Safety section of this handbook so that you know about your options
in case you or someone else should need help during the week.
*Play nice. If you know or have been told that you become violent or
disrespectful under the influence of drugs or alcohol, please do not
drink or do drugs while you're here.
*Violence will not be tolerated at Queeruption. Anyone engaging in
violent behavior -- such as fighting, sexual assault, threats,
harassment -- can be thrown off the site.
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